Andrew Murray on the Secret of Daily Obedience
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You commit at the breakfast prayer and forget by noon. The morning yes was sincere. By eleven, the small ground gained at six has quietly been given back, and by three in the afternoon the day looks indistinguishable from yesterday’s. You are not refusing God. You are something more difficult to name — a woman whose Sunday-morning resolutions and Wednesday-evening commitments cannot, somehow, survive the simple traffic of an ordinary day.
Andrew Murray, in The School of Obedience, would tell you that the forgetting by noon is not a character flaw. It is a structural problem with how you have been carrying the morning yes. The yes was made at breakfast and asked to do the work of the whole day, and the soul is not built for that kind of distance. How to obey God daily, in Murray’s slow answer, is not a question of more resolve at breakfast. It is a question of re-anchoring more often — hour by hour, not morning by morning. The Prayer Journal for Women is the 140-day companion this article is the opening pages of, and it walks the small daily returnings that build, slowly, into a life that holds.
The question Murray takes up across The School of Obedience is the one the modern Christian woman has been quietly asking herself for years: what is the actual secret to a Christian life that obeys consistently? Not heroically, not visibly, not on the platform — but in the ordinary hours, in the small choices, in the slow Tuesday afternoons that, repeated, become a life. His answer, slowly read, is the recovery of a practice the contemporary church has almost forgotten: the abiding that re-establishes contact with the Vine more than once a day, until the contact becomes more constant than the forgetting.
The first passage: the consciousness that comes every moment you are free
“But the abiding work is the work of the heart, not of the brain, the work of the heart clinging to and resting in Jesus, a work in which the Holy Spirit links us to Christ Jesus. Oh, do believe that deeper down than the brain, deep down in the inner life, you can abide in Christ, so that every moment you are free the consciousness will come: ‘Blessed Jesus, I am still in Thee.’”
— Andrew Murray, Absolute Surrender
Read it slowly. Notice the phrase Murray gives to the rhythm of obedient living: every moment you are free.
He is not asking you to think about God every minute. He is naming something more pastoral and more achievable. Every moment you are free. The moments between things. The pause in the car after the school drop-off. The thirty seconds while the kettle boils. The wait in the queue. The transition between meeting and meeting. The minute before bed. These are the moments — the small unscheduled gaps — that the secret of daily obedience lives in. The morning yes is the anchor. The free-moment returnings are the line by which the anchor stays attached through the rest of the hours.
This is the first piece of how to obey God daily. The forgetting-by-noon happens because there is no re-anchoring between six in the morning and noon. The breakfast prayer is followed by five hours of forward-leaning activity, none of which has a small return-to-Him built into it, and by noon the soul has drifted as far from the morning anchor as you would expect a soul to drift in five hours of unrelieved forward motion. The fix is not more conviction at breakfast. The fix is one small returning at nine. Blessed Jesus, I am still in Thee. That is the whole practice. The two-second inward sentence said in the gap before the next thing. The line that keeps the morning anchor connected to the noon hour.
The contemporary devotional culture has trained the woman to think of the spiritual life in appointments — the morning devotion, the lunchtime prayer if she manages it, the evening reading. Murray would gently relocate it. The spiritual life is, in his reading, lived in the gaps between appointments. The appointments are the anchors. The gaps are where the obedience either holds or unravels. The woman who has been failing at daily obedience has, almost always, been faithful at the appointments and absent in the gaps. Re-populating the gaps with the small I am still in Thee is the secret she has been waiting to find. (For the slow-companion to this, andrew murray on the surrendered will walks the will-side of the same hourly returning.)
The second passage: the bidding heard and the duty undertaken without delay
“‘At Thy bidding I take Thy yoke; I undertake the duty without delay; I abide in Thee.’ Let each consciousness of failure only give new urgency to the command, and teach us to listen more earnestly than ever till the Spirit again give us to hear the voice of Jesus saying, with a love and authority that inspire both hope and obedience, ‘Child, abide in me.’ That word, listened to as coming from Himself, will be an end of all doubting — a divine promise of what shall surely be granted. And with ever-increasing simplicity its meaning will be interpreted. Abiding in Jesus is nothing but the giving up of oneself to be ruled and taught and led, and so resting in the arms of Everlasting Love.”
— Andrew Murray, Abide in Christ
Slow down here. This is the passage that names what to do when, despite the morning anchor and the small returnings, you still notice yourself drifting.
Let each consciousness of failure only give new urgency to the command. Read the sentence twice. This is the second secret of daily obedience, and it is the one the modern devout woman most needs. The forgetting by noon, when it happens, is not the disqualification. The forgetting is the moment the urgency is renewed. The soul that notices, at 12:14 pm, that she has been forward-leaning for five hours and has not returned to Him once, does not need to spiral into the failed again loop. She needs only to let the noticing itself become the next anchor. Child, abide in me. The voice that called her this morning is calling her again, in the kitchen, while the toast is in the toaster. The forgetting is the cue to re-listen, not the cue to despair.
This is the part of the daily-obedience question the modern Christian woman has been getting wrong. She has been treating each forgetting as a failure that adds to a running tally. Murray treats each forgetting as the occasion of return. The two postures produce completely different lives. The tally-soul gets worse, gradually, because the failures pile up and the discouragement deepens. The return-soul gets better, gradually, because each forgetting is the prompt that re-establishes the contact, and the contact deepens through the repetition. The number of forgettings does not finally matter. What matters is what the soul does with each one.
Without delay is the small phrase that runs through the whole of The School of Obedience. The delay is the place obedience dies. The soul that, having noticed the drift, decides to do something about it this evening at the proper devotion time, has, in the deciding-to-defer, broken the contact further. The soul that, having noticed the drift, makes the two-second return in the kitchen, while the toast is in the toaster, has restored the contact in the gap before it had time to harden. The without-delay is the discipline. The discipline is small. The smallness is what makes it sustainable.
A small bodily pause. Sit upright. Let one breath go out slowly. Notice, without judgement, when the last time was that you returned to Him today — not for a formal devotion, but for a two-second inward sentence. Most days, for most women, the answer is not since this morning. Do not condemn the answer. Let the noticing be the return itself. Say it inwardly: Blessed Jesus, I am still in Thee. The body has been forward-leaning all day; the bracing in the shoulders and the tightening in the jaw is the body’s report. Let the body register that, in this small moment, the returning has happened. The two-second return is the practice. The body lowering is the body’s first piece of it.
The third passage: the praying without ceasing that becomes a life
“O Lord! give Thy grace that this may increasingly be my unceasing life-work — in praying without ceasing to draw down the blessing of heaven on all my surroundings on earth. I come now to accept this my calling. For this I would forsake all and follow Thee. Into Thy hands I would believingly yield my whole being: form, train, inspire me to be one of Thy prayer-legion, wrestlers who watch and strive in prayer.”
— Andrew Murray, With Christ in the School of Prayer
Read it slowly. This is the line that names where the practice is finally going.
Praying without ceasing. The phrase from Paul that the modern Christian woman has read a hundred times and never quite known how to obey. Murray, across his work, gives it the only operational meaning that holds. Praying without ceasing is not the impossible task of formal prayer continuously. It is the slow accumulation of the small returnings until the inward conversation with the Lord has become the background frequency of the day, the way a low music in a room becomes the atmosphere of it. Form, train, inspire me. The praying-without-ceasing is not produced; it is formed. It is the slow outcome of months and years of small returnings, until what began as a deliberate two-second sentence has become the soul’s resting inward posture.
This is the destination of the daily-obedience practice. Not heroic devotion. Not platform-visible piety. The slow becoming of a woman whose inward conversation with the Lord is more constant than the forgetting — because the small returnings, repeated for a year, have re-trained the soul’s default. The morning-only Christian is the woman whose default is forgetting and whose memory of God is the exception. The praying-without-ceasing Christian is the woman whose default has slowly become remembering and whose forgetting is the exception. The shift is not a single act. The shift is what 365 days of Blessed Jesus, I am still in Thee produces, by accumulation, in the soul that was willing to do the small thing every hour rather than the heroic thing once a month.
The Prayer Journal for Women is, in its 140-day shape, the slow training of exactly this default — a daily morning page, a small evening return, a scripture pre-printed, and the slow re-population of the soul’s hours with the inward returning. (If the wider question of what holds the inward life together when the calendar is too full, a ‘let it go’ mom journal — 30 prompts for the things you’re done carrying is the lighter companion, and feeling spiritually dry — a letter for the long silence walks the slow letter to the woman whose hourly contact has felt absent for months.)
The line worth keeping near the page
If you take one sentence of Murray’s into the week ahead, take this one:
“Every moment you are free, the consciousness will come: Blessed Jesus, I am still in Thee.”
Write it small. Put it where you will see it in the gaps — beside the kettle, on the dashboard, by the bathroom mirror, on the inside of the kitchen cupboard. The line is the prompt. The free moments will come; the line will catch them. The breakfast prayer will hold longer than noon when the noon-hour has its own small return-sentence built into it.
You will still forget. Murray would expect that. Let each consciousness of failure only give new urgency to the command. The forgetting is not the disqualification; the forgetting is the cue to return. Ten thousand small returnings, across a year, are how the secret of daily obedience is finally lived — slowly, untheatrically, in the woman whose default has begun, by grace, to shift from forgetting to remembering. (For the sibling-essay on the all-or-nothing question this hourly walk is finally a working-out of, what andrew murray meant by absolute surrender walks the larger frame, and why andrew murray said self-will is the root of all sin walks the diagnostic side of what has been crowding out the returnings.)
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A 140-day home for the practice
The slow practice we just walked has its 140-day form in Prayer Journal for Women. One short page each day. Scripture pre-printed. Space for the small honest sentence of the returning being made today. Built for the woman whose breakfast prayer keeps being forgotten by noon and who is ready, slowly, to let the small hourly returnings become the inward shape of her day.
It is the format of this article made into a daily companion, so the page you sit down at tomorrow already has a shape and you do not have to invent one from scratch on the evening you finally have five minutes.
Everspring Press plans, in time, to reprint Andrew Murray’s The School of Obedience under our quiet contemplative imprint. Until then, the Prayer Journal for Women is the daily companion that carries Murray’s posture into the contemporary woman’s morning page.
